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I wish men everywhere would sit up and listen !!

HUGE turn off - when men watch PORN and think that its real and try to pull the same stuff at home in bed.

When men admit that they have been to a prostitute in the past. FOR ME PERSONALLY, there is no coming back from this one.

I don't mind teaching men how to perform oral sex as long as they take it as seriously as they would have ME take giving them a blow job.

What are your turn offs??

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mmm a man that is self centered in bed and care nothing for how his partner feels then expects to be praise for being a great lover!!!

or a man that wont tell me what he likes or doesnt like in bed. my husband was the worst he would not talk about anything like that but he learned to share.....

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A lier or a cheat, you can't trust eighter one


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Liars and cheats! They are the worst.

Or when your man wont tell you that he likes or dislikes something. How are you going to know if they like or don't like something if they don't communicate?

Or a man who says he doesn't masturbate. If you cannot understand what makes you feel good how are you going to please someone else or be able to tell someone else what pleases you?

Good topic... could open a whole can of worms though LOL


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Hmm, well when a woman assumes that just letting you have the chance to have intercourse while she just lies there is doing you a favour. Oh, and if she does try something else, it's so obvious she would rather be somewhere else ... sheesh.


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My biggest turn-off is an Iffy Stiffy.

I've only witnessed this with two men (and one of them was over 50).

There's medication out there for that kind of thing! Go get some, Softy!


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yes, non-reactive sexual activity is a turn-off. Makes you wonder if it is even worth the effort LOL


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Or ugh, seeing me wiped out totally from everyday family stuff and as soon as I get everything/one settled in, wanting sex. Like RIGHT then. That drives me batty! Just let me be for a minute, you know??

Also, not being willing to try anything new. Whats the point??

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well how about the you should know what I like and I should not have to tell you additude? Gee if I was a sexual psychic I would not have got into bed this you dumb A$$! it is like I just magicaly know all the tricks to turning him on...What do I look like a Pro HOE? Talk you idoit!!!

lol I am so glad I am married now sex is much better when you have a man that you can trust and communicate with....when he finaly opens up!!!

can I get a Amen or something?

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Originally Posted By: Jase

Or a man who says he doesn't masturbate. If you cannot understand what makes you feel good how are you going to please someone else or be able to tell someone else what pleases you?

Good topic... could open a whole can of worms though LOL


In my opinion, there are two kinds of men in the world, those who masturbate and those who lie.

I have heard alot of men talk about how their wives are completely uninterested in sex AND had some of the same women confirm that they don't care, its a chore etc. Frankly I don't get how you can claim to be heterosexual and be so turned off by your partner wanting to be with you. It just doesn't compute.

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