I play in a women's league in the spring. I played co-ed ball one year, but didn't care for it because some of the younger guys are overly aggressive. Once one of them took out my friend who was catching and almost broke her ankle. I think at my age (40 something) I play competitively, but I would rather not break any bones LOL.
I do love playing though, and have made some great friends through softball. We have women in our league that are in their 50's and a couple who are 60. I know you are laughing, but they are some tough ladies!