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yeah i have been wiht him for about two and a half months and i have already told him i love him. i do love him wiht all my heart but i dont know if i am moving too fast.i know he cares about me alot and would do anything for me and would do nothing tohurt me but im just not sure. i know i can talk to him about everything but im just not sure.everyone seems to think hes not good enough for me but im just soconfused right now...
please.
ADVICE

That's what they said about my fiance five years ago... before he dumped me on my 20th birthday

Not to be the bearer of bad news, but keep in mind that almost every relationship you ever have will end. It sounds like a real [censored], but ask anyone, it is true.

In the meantime, enjoy your boyfriend! If you've only been together for two months though, and you are a virgin, don't even think of sleeping with him- that will complicate things like woah, and you don't want to be fall in love with someone who won't work out.

I'm going to say it again though, enjoy your snuggle-bunny. You're young and with someone you cherish, who the hell cares if people think he's not good enough for you?

As long as he's not abusive or anything, because in that case I'm going to have to kick him in the teeth

God/Buddha/Allah/Brahma Bless~

Is there a reason they don't think he's good enough for you? Do they know something about him or his background? If not, then don't pay attention to what others say about him.

If you feel he is the one in your heart and he has done nothing to hurt you or make you feel differently, then just do what your heart tells you.

If you listen to your friends and you dump him and he turns out that he would have been the perfect mate for you, then you will have missed out and you may never find the perfect mate ever again.

If you feel you are moving too fast, then talk with him about it. If he is the one and if you can talk with him about anything, then he will understand and there won't be any problems.

If you do talk with him about it then do it because you want and not because other people want you to.

Twice in your posting you say you are "just not sure". That speaks volumes. Go slow. It is early in your relationship, and in my humble opinion the feeling of being uncertain of things at this beginning stage is a wiser and more realistic feeling than that of being " in love".
Slow down and enjoy the process of getting to know each other. Don't paint yourself into a corner by trying to squeeze things into a certain definition at this point. Two and half months is still the learning and exploring stage. You are infatuated, most certainly, but more time, trust, growth and learning is required for love.
Don't put pressure on yourself ; it is not only ok it is very prudent to act hesitantly and take things at a comfortable pace with no labels or strings attached to this process of learning about each other.

(Sorry Vance, it appeared I was responding to you rather than the original post. I did not realize Quick Reply made an RE; of the above post. )