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#320656 06/08/07 04:33 PM
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Hi there, I just found these child free groups online and am so excited to see there is a whole society out there of folks who dont want kids either.

I am 37, just got married last month, and am terrified at the thought of raising a family. My husband and I were both raised without siblings and like a quiet, peaceful, organized house. I have been worrying about the whole "biological ticking clock syndrome" and am now at peace with myself about not wanting kids. We have 3 beautiful animals who give us unconditional love instead.

Anyone out there with my story who wants to share more with me?


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ljdavies #320659 06/08/07 05:01 PM
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Hi, welcome.

You will find a lot of support here, and might even discover some advantages of being childfree that you hadn't thought of.

I discovered this blog a few months ago, and have gotten a lot out of it. There are tons of pages of stuff to read. I agree, it really does help to know you are not alone.

I'm 35, and getting married in the fall. I have never wanted kids, it just doesn't appeal to me. I also like peace and quiet, and having time to myself, too. The stress, chaos, and noise of raising kids would drive me nuts. I have a 7 year old nephew that constantly reminds me that I'm not cut out for parenting. I'm not putting myself down when I say that - I'm recognizing that based on my personality, it wouldn't be a good match.

You will find most of the people on this board are also really into animals, and seem to have really cool hobbies as well. There also seems to be an abundance of really smart women on this site, that have put a lot of thought into their childfree state.

The only ticking I ever hear comes from someone else's watch. I think it's important to follow your own instincts and passions.
While I enjoy being an aunt immensely, I am just not drawn to parenting.


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Welcome ljdavies!


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M.B. #320852 06/09/07 06:36 PM
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Welcome LJDavies!
Congratulations on the getting a new hubby! I'm not married or dating. But, I do eagerly await the day when I can bring a bouncing, 6 foot, 180 lb, hubby home (granted he passes the FBI clearance/drug test/AIDS test/credit check/criminal background check/5 girlfriend reference check point/sex offender registry and is preferably of the Johnny Depp-persuasion). Hmmm.....

dstlady6 #320960 06/10/07 11:59 AM
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Welcome LJ!
Dst- I am LOL at your post! smile


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