BellaOnline Forums Relationships Relationships Little bit confused?

Up until now everyone here has been so helpful, I thought that was what this forum was for. I haven't recieved any feedback and that is very unlikely. My BF went ahead on his own and added a post. I'm not asking anyone here to judge anyone or make anybody feel uncomfortable to reply to my posts, if there are limitations ans rules on this site that I have crossed please do let me know?

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I just think it was found odd that your boyfriend would post on your own account verses creating their own and posting.

It can and does look suspect. I think that was what was trying to be expressed by Rueben.

HI,
I know I would not like it if my husband, daughter or anyone came on & posted under my name on this site. It all seems kind of strange to me also. I would never tell you what to do, Rueben but I really hope that you don't leave the Belllaonline forums. kharma, I don't know what is really going on with your boyfriend posting like that, but you have to admit it is rather weird. i think this whole thing confused everybody. Kharma I would not want to see you leave either. I hope that everyone has a good night. Judy K. from Chicago.

Really I don't see what the big deal is. One night we were sitting trying to talk things out and I printed my posts to read to him. It's always good to hear what others think especially ones that aren't involved. Anyways were trying to work things out and have found the feedback from this forum to be helpful. He is not real computer literate, I guess he should have created his own account. I really didn't know that it mattered though.
I apologize if it all seems like a big story, but it's not it is all 100% true. I only wish it was all made up.

I would not worry about it too much. I know what you mean about problems. The things that have gone on in my life at times might have seemed like they were made up to other people. I'm with you in that I wish some of my problems actually were made up instead of the real thing. Good luck with everything. Judy K.

Sorry, but I think you're both messed up. And I should have not said that, but you asked. And sometimes when you have nothing nice to say, you shouldn't say anything. I know you are looking for support, and I understand that. But what you did and what he did are just too far out there for me. I hope you find happiness, but I think you hurt each other and yourselves far too much. I would not like to live with the scars you are creating.

What ever anybody has to say, I welcome it all the way. I'm not saying that anyone has to agree or disagree with what's going on in my life. The whole reason I have been posting on this forum was because no matter what it is stupid, dumb, "far too out there" this is a place where it is not really on a personal level so no matter how much or what it is to be judged by it is not what I have expected. I'm not always looking for support just someone elses ideas or opinions to the problems I have going on in my life. I do thank you all for your time to post what you did. Him logging on to my account is not strange at all we are now trying to work "together" instead of "his" "mine"

the point is this: you can work "together" and not "his" "mine"... however when you "both" post using a singular account.. it looks suspect and wrong.

ok since everyone else thinks so!