I have posted only from my own knowledge and experience on these forums.
Hollyelise contacted me by PM and stated that she was concerned that my post in the Self Development Forum in the 'Self Pity' thread would be harmful to Das and others. It has never been my intention to do anything but support other survivors.
Holly also felt I should have posted my comments privately to Alexandra, and that personal comments should not have been made on the forum. However, I would point out that my post was not the first to become personal. In the post preceeding my response, Alexandra had said this:
Sadly - in every sense of the word - I am signing off now.
Both on Forum and through PMs and personal correspondence.
thus ending all communication with me, even though we had been friends, and corresponding since the time when she lived in France. So a private response to her was not possible.
As for being personal, please look at this comment below which was suggesting that I do not want to heal:
Try substituting the words 'can't' for 'won't'.
That will describe it better.
This denies all that I have achieved in my life and makes it count for nothing.
So, to all of you who have all the right answers, I bow in homage, and will cease as from now to be a destructive influence on others here.
I wish you all good fortune.