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I am confused about an encounter I had last night.

I invited one woman I am interested in to a bar. She didn't want to go, but suggested that I bring her some beer. I said, well, ok, later.
So a few hours later, I left the bar, got some beers, and went to her place.

We hung out for a while, drinking beers, and chatting.
I was not getting any obvious interest signals from her..
-She didn't touch me, she didn't really get close to me, that sort of thing.
She made eye contact, smiled a bit, and did laugh at my sillism's though.

However, later that evening, she was showing me pictures on her computer, and some shall we say, risque, pics accidentally came up on the screen.

She got embarrased by it, blushed madly and said it was an accident.

Anyhow the night ended pretty much on the same tempo as it started. She hugged me good night, and I left.

My question for the ladies of this forum is, should I have made a move, or was I right in playing it safe?

I have known this woman for a few months now, and I figure I have been relegated to 'Friend' status, which is why I didn't make a move.

Confused
Dangerbob

Don't fall for this game of hers, dude. Mixed signals will make you confused and feeling crazy, obviously, or you wouldn't be writing about it here. There are women out there who don't have to play games to reel anyone in, unless you like that sort of thing...

you can make a move if you want too, but if she only thinks of you as a friend, you will risk losing that friendship. Is that something your willing to lose? Its possible she is shy and just waiting for you to make the first move.

Be honest direct and upfront. There are two scenarios...one she said she didnt want to go to the bar and wanted you to bring her beer back so that you would skip the bar and go straight to her place. Since you didnt, it might have agitated her and made her lose her groove. Pics on the computer??? Not an accident. I know every inch of every file in my computer and I would show anyone anything if I knew I had hawt pics on there. Two she thinks you are just a friend. All I can say AGAIN is be honest direct and upfront. Whats the worst that can happen, she's says that she's not into you like that?