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#310855 05/02/07 06:15 PM
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I'm here in Montreal on a 10-day "projects block" trip with six freshman girls from the high school where I teach, as well as the school's French teacher (she's awesome and, while not CF, is a very youthful 50-something empty-nester). After a week in Montreal, we'll be going to Quebec City for a few days for more of the same. In each town, the girls are doing a service project each afternoon (working in a homeless shelter or tutoring 1st and 2nd graders in underprivileged schools). The rest of the time is sightseeing and fun. We rented a beautiful townhous via Craigslist and I get my own room in a very funky neighborhood. This, for the moment, is "work" (have I mentioned lately that my job kinda rocks?).

Just bought the Quebec edition of the May Elle magazine...not only to practice my French, but because one of the headlines on the cover caught my eye:

ON DIT OUI AUX ENFANTS: 20 bonnes raisons d'en avoir

("We say yes to children: 20 good reasons to have them").

All the usual "bingo"-type reasons are in there..."parenting makes you a better person", etc. But I take it as a good sign that this issue is "on the table" and no longer a given. Even here in nominally Catholic French Canada, where the party line is family, family, family, birthrates are falling.

(Good).





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I must admit that it's articles like this that give me pause to question - Do the editors think that this will make a woman go "Yes, bring on the baby"? I mean, it's good that it's not taken as a given, but they never talk about the downsides of children in these articles. Plus, how does the editor come up with this as a "grab" on the front cover? I just wonder how it was pitched at their monthly meeting as a seller.

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I agree, I mean, can't I be a good person without a child? I didn't do anything wrong. I also agree -- again -- I would like to have sat in on that meeting. Did every woman there have a babe at her breast?
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Lord help us all. Am I damned to hell because I do not yearn to give birth? Is there something "wrong" with me? Maybe, we are wired differently than the "normals." But, really, we are no real threat to anyone so I am not quite sure what all of the noise is about. At the end of the day, our decision to remain CF doesn't hurt anything.


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