SdylandBon,
I am a new tatter myself and really love it! I don't claim to be an expert of any kind. However, it sounds like you should have a chain between your rings on the second row. Could that be it? Whatever you do....don't give up! When I first started tatting I was so frustrated I could hardly see. I looked at books, internet, you name it. What helped me the most was I went to the library and got a tatting video. You wouldn't believe how easy it was to learn! Now, any time I'm sitting down, I have a tatting shuttle in my hand. I love it!