I'm worse than frugal, I'm definitely tightfisted. I can't HELP it! I grew up with no money (food from the food bank, welfare checks), and now can't enjoy spending money. My only indulgence is travel, and fitness classes (but I work with Parks & Rec so I don't even have to pay for most of my fitness programs!). And my laptop, it's a good one.
It's funny because I thought when I got married I'd loosen the purse strings, but it hasn't happened at all. My husband makes good money and doesn't like to waste it (but he's not as tight as I am). The wierd thing is that I don't like to spend ANYBODY'S money, even if it's not mine! Well, I don't mind expensive dinners and hotel rooms on hubby's expense account, but that feels different somehow.
Anyway, I've been wanting to practice being less frugal and enjoy our money more, but I don't even have anything I want to buy. I couldn't care less about clothes or dvd's or eating out....I do like massages, though (but we are covered for those!).
Maybe I'll indulge in a spa day for my birthday....