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You marry a good looking man who has good brains, earns well and has good personality. after few years of marriage this man develops
paralysis and is of no use. By this time you have children also.
What would you do? Can you please answer this in terms of reality rather than in a way that looks idealistic and good? I hope that I am making myself understood. thank you.
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CDM if I may be so bold, the question is a good one, because it cuts to the chase...this is the 'better or worse' part of the marriage vow....
We never know what lies around the corner.
And as you rightly say, we should not respond in a way that looks idealistic and good.
I know what I would do.
I KNOW what I would do.
And I know WHY I would do it.
And you can probably guess what I'd say I would do, and why.
Thank you for the question.
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"Is of no use"? I'm sorry, you lost me after that. I married because I loved who he was on the inside. Not for his bank account, model -looks, or anything else. Marriage is for better or worse. The only acceptable reasons, IMO, for divorce, is if there has been abuse, or the vows were broken.
Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime commitment, standing by each other through thick and thin. If a person were to walk away over something like this, I would have to question if they ever truly loved him to begin with.
Life is short ~ Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.
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What would be the action of afemale partner, if there was no marriage but only a live in relationship?
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cdmohatta, I am trying to follow you... is your question about sexual needs being met?
Life is short ~ Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.
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What would you want your husband to do if that happened to you?
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caramy....He IS a 'husband'..... 
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CDMohatta,
One can not answer on what one will do until one gets there.
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Physical disabilities don't mean the end of the marriage.
I didn't marry my husband because of what he earned or how he looked. I married him because he is my best friend. I can only hope that would remain and we could face such a difficult thing together.
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CDMohatta,
One can not answer on what one will do until one gets there.
You are very correct.
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Avon
by Angie - 05/20/25 08:42 AM
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