I rescued a blind dog from a shelter...no eyes. He's special needs. You don't hear me whining about all the extra time it takes to train him and help him around...no just letting him out in the yard. I love that dog, though. I CHOSE HIM. You CHOSE your life, believe it or not.
Pregnancy doesn't just "happen magically" to people...we know what causes that these days...so don't try to martyr yourself here, iwonder. There are plenty of days I don't get to nap...or shower...or shave my legs...because I'm too busy caring for others (my husband, blind dog, abandoned cat, my horse, creatures outside), tending my home, and taking a full graduate school load...in conservation biology...trying to save the planet buckling under all the pressure from those of you that want to birth us into environmental oblivion. Think about the 40,000+ diapers your kids generated in life that we all have to know live with. Yum. Thanks. It's our planet too.