You are correct that I would welcome being more than just friends but at the same time I am more concerned that she and I continue to develop our friendship as simply friends even if this means sacrificing being more than friends for quite some time or forever. I believe that she believes that I want to be solely more than just friends (it probably scares her). We have much in common and have experienced some of the best conversation. She fell for me and then I feel for her. It did happen quick. It was all going well then she put up a wall and has been sending mixed signals since that point.
We are back to communicating a little but there is still a clear barrier. This past evening she backed out, last minute on dinner plans but at the same time said we should reschedule soon. I just want to be her friend but don't know how to make this intention clear to her. I tried once and she wanted to know what I meant by friends.
I want to salvage this friendship (it is special and different) but know I need to be careful in my moves.
Further advice question and comment welcome and needed...
