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Wanted to vent out. I thought that it will not help me at all. But I could not control myself.

whenever the pain of seperation becomes very strong,
I long for my sweetheart,
Who I lost.
I forget all about how I was thrashed.
I only want my sweetheart to be with me.
So I pray as I have been doing for long seven years.
It has become so painful.
the tears do not stop.
The heart bleeds.
Oh, I loved so much,
I lost myself.

Ah no worries <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> You lost yourself..

But you can be found again, thats the beauty of it.

You say you miss your better half, what if you never knew it in the first place?

This happened to me.. I was infatuated with an ex lover of mine, and thought that all the things we shared and that she did were what true love was..

I realized that I thought wrong.

Because life has given me something better than I could have wished for in life.

It happens! Take time to figure out what you need and want, allow time, and sometimes, love just has to find you <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Dont be ancy.. because it comes at the best of times "and the worst!" Thats why its so special <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Chin up!

CDM, realise that our inner peace, serenity and perpetual joy are not dependant on the input from another... You thought you had a Soul-Mate- Ypou were wrong, and it was not to be. Perhaps in that sadness, there is salvation...How good it should be to know that you did not spend all your life with the 'wrong' person....!

Don't look back. Never go back. Doing so can only inhibit your personal progress, and blemish your happiness.
Rejoice that your ex-parner has moved on, for they have given you the liberty to do likewise.

I had lost control of myself in sadness. That is how I posted my thoughts.

........And where are you now?

Sadness does overpower me few times a day. Thanks for your care.

CDM, remember you are entitled to grieve for what you lost, but you are even more entitled to recover from that grief and move on. It isn't easy. But don't let it alter your opinion of your own self worth. You deserve something special, and one day you will have someone who knows that and will treat you that way. My best wishes and prayers are with you.

I love you for saying that i have aright to grieve. I appreciate your comment very much. Ineeded it. Otherwise I was feeling guilty while grieving. God bless you for this support. Thank you so much.