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Hey everyone. I wasn't paying attention and placed this in post under the wrong catagory. Sorry. <img src="/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> I need a little help here. My girlfriend of 7 years, broke up with me 2 days ago, but we are still living together. We have a house and a ton of debt to work out. I just want to "run screaming". But, I also want to do the right thing. It would ruin her if I just left. I love her with every fiber if my being and would not want to hurt her. "I JUST CAN'T BREATH THROUGH THE PAIN". Nobody cheated. She just doesn't love me like she used to. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. If you know the relationship is completly done, my best advice to you is to figure out what is best for you right now. If you have debt together then figure out how to take care of that, but also give yourself time to think about you. It sounds like you are in a lot of pain so give yourself some time and space away from her to heal a bit. Is it possible for you to leave and still be able to pay your debts off?

If she is being truthful and simply does not care for you the way she used to and does not wish to be with you anymore, then as you can see she is doing what is best for her. You must do the same. What is best for you? You are the only one that truly knows what is best for you and if you don't do what is best for you, nobody else will either. I'm sorry that you're going through so much pain,:(.

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Thank all of you for your wonderful support. In my head, I know what will come, in my heart, I can't believe it. She has worked this all out and is ready to go on. I have only begun to catch my breath. She is out with friends from work, I am sitting here on line seeking... I don't know what I'm seeking.