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I think clairvoyance in relationships is still just as real. Some people dismiss it as just Knowing your spouse really well, but my husband and I will think or say the same thing, and we've only been married 7 years (together 9).

We have a lot in common, and we tend to "think" the same we, and have many views in common, but I don't think that can explain how precise some of our thoughts are. I think it links more into Eleise's article: Love, an Invisible Power

I was just remarking on another forum (Pagan I think) about how I am very connected with my 2 youngest children. My daughter the most (she's my middle child) and I think it is because I nursed her longer than my other 2. I can have a migraine or nightmare at night, and one of the two of them will also have a nightmare and want to climb into bed with me. Or if I am feeling sick - they will act lethargic, too.

It's funny, I have never had this connection with my oldest child - not even when he was a baby. i don't know if it has to do with the fact that he is autistic (which I didn't know until he was 8), or because I was so young when I had him (only 20) and going through my first bouts of depression. But he is extremely hard to read.

That's an interesting point about your first child being difficult to "read."

I can't remember where it was I read this, but it was about psychics and whether or not they had the ability to read a person's mind. I remember the author was re-assuring that a person's mind could not be read and thinking to myself that I disagreed because it happens all the time without even trying -telepathy.

When we are working on increasing the effects of the sixth sense, meditation is often recommended to quiet the mind. So, psychologically speaking, there are attributes that can get in the way.

So, I was thinking, when or if someone is stressed or mentally blocked in some fashion, it can put a damper on our abilities. Children, especially are sensitive to their surroundings and pick up on things we could only imagine possible and are extrememly perceptive but may not yet have the rationalization as to why something happened and can take it personally.

When they take something personally, the immediate remedy is defense and rightfully so. My daughter's first response is to think somehting is her fault when there is something wrong on the homefront or if I'm sad or upset. I can't read her either when she get's like that, so I will usually just say, "Ok love-bug, spill it.." When it's resolved you can jst feel a thinning of the air and then synchronicity returns and I'll once again pick up on a thought as well as she mine, even when she's a half acre away. It will actually sound as if she has said something or she'll answer me and I won't have asked the question but will be playing it over in my mind.

Elleise
Clairvoyance Editor

I am the oldest of 3 siblings (all girls), and my Mother was 19 when I was born. Our relationship has always and continues to differ greatly from her relationship with my 2 younger sisters.

My Mother rationalized it as I didn't love her as much as my sisters. More accurately, I didn't need or depend upon her as much as my sisters did. A mutual friend pointed out to her that in some ways we were very much alike. However, in other areas, we are complete opposites. I think this paradoxical blend of personality traits did prevent our relationship being more similar to what she has with my sisters.

We just do not think alike in any way. Our brains are "wired" different. But with my daughter, we are complete opposites in every way. Yet I'm in tune with her, and have always been. I only have one child, so comparison of relationships with siblings from the Mother's point of view is impossible for me.

But I look at it as each relationship, whether familial or not, is as truly unique as each of the participants.

I've just always felt vaguely guilty that I did not seem to have the same mental connection with my oldest as the other two.

I would have figured since he was the 1st (and therefore the only for about 6 yrs) - that it would have been very strong.

And I guess I've always felt that maybe that had something to do with his autism. I realize that is not rational - but its a hard thought to get rid of.

I read somewhere that children w/autism or any other communicative impairment, become vastly telepathic because they are forced basically to utilize their intuitive nature for survival.

Maybe there's a tremendous amount of information coming inward and they're already dealing with that on a significant level. Kind of like a scientist who is busy working intellectually/internally, in their own world - but again significant none the less.

Elleise
Clairvoyance Editor
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