Can a long-distance relationship last for Five [color:"blue"] [/color] years....or more???
Hi I have a problem.....which I was wondering whether I could ask your advice on.
Can you possibly offer me any advice?I am nowyears old but i have got myself into the most horrible situation of which I can see no solution too.I feel sick with fear when I think about how I'm probably going to lose this person I love forever .
This is my problem:
When I was in primary school I fell in love with a boy called Skye.
But then when it came too high school, he got sent to a private all boy's school in the city and I got sent to the local comprehensive.
I thought I'd NEVER see him EVER again and despaired.
Around about the same time my Grandmother of whom I was VERY close to died. She practically raised me.
Because of all these things(the death of my Grandma, the loss of Ian ) I began to feel very depressed.
Then I made a TERRIBLE mistake:
Somedays I felt so low I found it almost impossible to think about the future and sometimes couldn't find the will-power to get up in the mornings.I started to refuse to go to school as I felt so low. I'd been bullied VERY VERY badly at the primary school i went to (before I moved to the one Skye was at)which also made me quite nervous of people and scared of school too which made me terrified of High school.
I refused to go to High school on-and-off for the first three years by which time I was REALLY REALLY very behind in my work.
At the end of the third year I then refused to go to school altogether as I couldn't cope any more with my life. I was SEVERELY depressed and wasn't thinking logically. I ended up having 5 measly hours of home tuition per week, for the next two years which should have been spent in school. Unsurprisingly I now failed ALL my GCSEs (apart from getting a �C� In English) I feel so awful! I can�t believe I let this happen. I have stupidly sat at home for a whole year doing absolutely NOTHING with my life as I have been so depressed <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> .
However this is now my problem(and what I desperately need advice on) :
I am now 17 years of age . It has got to the point now where i realise that i HAVE to do something with my life i.e. college/education.
But my problem is I still REALLY really love Skye
the thing is I did have brief contact with him a few years ago and recieved comformation that BACK THEN he liked me.But he didn't know about me missing school back then. you see I sent him a valentine's card saying 'I think you're the most lovely person in the universe and always will no matter what! The time has come where I HAVE to do something with my life.
I want to go to college but the thing is I�ve just found out that the college I want to go to is right next door to the top educational sixth form that Skye�s at
I NEVER in a million years expected anything like this to happen (I thought I'd never see him again)
If I go to this college then I will definitely bump into him but the thing is I think I would die of shame. I feel like a complete freak.
he's studying 'A' levels at a top sixth form college. And I .....will have to go on an Entry level course and learn really basic stuff like how to cook, use public transport etc(basically for absolute dim-wits)
He'll NEVER EVER IN A MILLION BILLION YEARS be interested in me now. He's in a different league to me. He's so clever---and I�m not! but this is killing me. I wish I could be with him more than anything in the world but as soon as he finds out I�m on an Entry level course, he�ll NEVER EVER be interested in me now.But i love him so so much and couldn't bear to lose him. I think I'd die of pain !!!!!!!
Also it's inevitable that i'll bump into him whilst out and about anyway(i can't believe I didn't think about this years ago.......but I didn't think 6 years into the future back then).So I cannot run away from this problem. If I ignore him then he'll think I'm not interested i him--, (when I am�and it would break my heart to do this) But if I talk to him NEVER like me anyway�. when he finds out what I've done. He'll think I;m a terrible person for refusing to go to school.
The thing is (and I really need your help on this) HOW ON EARTH DO I EXAIIN TO HIM ABOUT HOW I REFUSED TO GO TO SCHOOL--AND WORST OF ALL WHY? HE'LL THINK I�M A TERRIBLE I have two options:to ignore him and lose him or to talk to him �.but I�ll lose him anyway once I�ve explained my situation! It�s hopeless! What should I do?Can you offer me any advice? If i go to another college (which there is a STRONG probability that I might) then I'll bump into him whilt out and about anyway.
I also have another question: it's just I have thought about asking Skye if he would consider going out with me when he comes back from University.(by which time I might have been able to catch up a bit in college and might not be so dim) What do you think about this idea?
However I have a problem.....by my calculations if I started on an entry level course at college this year then according to college it would take me 4 years of college approximately before I would be ready to go to University.............but by the time I would be leaving to go to University...Skye would most likely be just coming back from his.....so how can I ever be with him.
How can i have a relationship with him if i have to go to Uni, and he'll be somewhere else????Can you offer me any advice
Is it possible to have a long-distance relationship? If so........ then how?
Can a long-distance relationship last for FIVE/SIX YEARS OR MORE????
could a long-distance relationship such as the one I've just mentioned actually work???
PLEASE CAN ANYONE HELP!!!/OFFER ME ANY ADVICE!!!!!!
