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Unfuckingbelievable: 71% so far say we're selfish. What an ignorant and tunnel-vision way of seeing the perspective of the CFBC masses. I think many of these women shi t out their brains along with their placentas. Good Lord.
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The whole poll is skewed anyway - as if those four options are the only reasons for being CF. It would have been a *little* more meaningful if they had at least thrown in "infertility" and "no desire" as options as well.

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oh, my. they certainly seem a bit judgemental, don't they?

so infertility wasn't an option? and don't they realize that not all of us who are infertile waited to start trying? we started 10 years ago, so that doesn't mean that we had the big careers going at the time. we were young and silly and thought it would be a great idea to bring a child into the marriage while he was still in law school. there were actually times during those first 2 years of trying that i was relieved to find out we weren't pregnant. of course, that feeling changed when the jobs were finally there and we were financially stable.

anyway, they have their lives, we have ours. they are blissfully happy in their worlds, and we are blissfully happy in ours. jmo. let them bicker and fight and think we are all horrible people. their opinion doesn't matter. as long as we feel good about our decisions and our situations in life, that's all that matters.

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