Take a deep breath, sit down, and breathe slowly. Now. What your husband has is described as:
'a person who likes to wear the clothes of the opposite sex. Some dictionaries add the words �for sexual pleasure', but this is not really true, because many �cross-dressers� just feel comfortable � rather than sexually aroused � when they don the clothing of the other sex. In fact, transvestites often feel the need, not just to dress, but also to behave as a member of the opposite gender.
Overwhelmingly, transvestites are men who like to dress as women. Recent research has confirmed that most of these people are not homosexual. Nor do they wish to change into women.
The vast majority of male transvestites like being men.'
This info came right off a psychotherapist's website.
Now if you can live with his fantasies, okay. If he wants to "date" then, not okay.
You both need to get counseling for yourselves and your sons.Don't go it alone.
Stay with us here, we listen and we don't judge.
