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10 Tips to Improve Your Self Esteem #269686 09/18/06 01:55 PM
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The best way to improve your life and earn the respect of others is to improve your self-esteem. This is not a very difficult task. All that it needs is good guidance. Here are ten tips that can happen when you improve your self esteem.

1. You should surround yourself with people who are positive and supportive, and shun friends who are cynical and negative. This will generate a huge swell of positive feelings in you. You will respect yourself more, and your self-esteem will grow.

2. You should be clear about what you want to achieve in life. Set goals, and work for their achievement. To make your task easier, break your main goal into several smaller goals which are relatively easier to achieve. This will make the task of reaching your main goals seem easier. It will also give you a feeling of satisfaction whenever you achieve one of the smaller goals.

3. Always be positive about yourself and keep reminding yourself about your good qualities, your accomplishments and how you help your family, friends, others and yourself. Don�t make the mistake of brooding over negative things, and never put yourself down

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Hi Cecep!
Thanks for the great information. I copied it out and stuck it up at my desk so I could glance over them from time to time.

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Thanks.

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You should be clear about what you want to achieve in life. Set goals, and work for their achievement. To make your task easier, break your main goal into several smaller goals which are relatively easier to achieve. This will make the task of reaching your main goals seem easier. It will also give you a feeling of satisfaction whenever you achieve one of the smaller goals.

I liked this most.

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Great resource to have. Thanks for passing on the information!


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Re: 10 Tips to Improve Your Self Esteem #269691 10/31/06 02:34 PM
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Thank you for the post, Cecep.

I do have something to add to this, just to keep things in perspective. Studies have shown that the focus on self esteem as a benchmark to "achieve" for a good life doesn't actually work. In other words, your life is not conditional on whether or not you have good or bad self esteem.

I think working on your self esteem is a worthy activity and can only serve to improve your state of mind, but you will be okay either way. Lots of people with lousy self esteem have risen to greatness, not because they've focused on themselves but because they've focused on what fascinated them, such as Einstein with physics. He was a very humble, unassuming man who didn't worry about his self-esteem level. He just concerned himself with solving the scientific puzzles that intrigued him.

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This was a great list. I also agree with Barbara in that by simply focusing on your own goals and dreams is a great way to improve your self esteem. You start to believe in yourself once you've seen what you can accomplish when you set your mind to something. Believe in yourself and your self esteeem naturally goes up.

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thank you for that heartwarming resource, worth keepi9ng, I love the last tip

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thank you everybody for these most helpful tips. these are a great help to me.i agree 100% with catherine8. focus, focus, focus and center ourselves.

thanks again.

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Re: 10 Tips to Improve Your Self Esteem [Re: voiceovergal] #306334 04/10/07 10:27 PM
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My favourite tip ever for improving self esteem is:

Do something to impress yourself.

I guess that pretty much sums up setting goals and achieving them, as well as reminding yourself of the good you've done.
It's true that a lazy, unproductive person doesn't really have much to feel confident about. You have to give yourself those things.

I've known lots of people who expect praise and kudos from others for doing nothing. I never quite understood that.

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