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Oh my god. I think I'm pregnant! I had a daughter last December of 2005. She is 9 months now. And life is perfect for this family right now. Her father and I cannot have another child! I mean, we can, but we can't! I don't know how to react. I don't know for sure I'm pregnant, but I haven't hit my period and I'm been throwing up sick for the past couple of days. Every time I think about food I get sick. It feels just like the first time, but a little milder. I don't know how we're going to do this. We are not ready. I was on birth control. I am so scared.

Don't count chickents before they hatch.

Go pick up an over the counter test and see. You may be nerving yourself up for nothing.

And if you are, you'll be okay. I just went through a similar situation. I was freaking out and my daughter is 17 months. Then I adjusted and was excited only to find out I wasn't!

The only time I was ready to get pregnant was the first time - and I've got 3 kids. <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Don't make yourself sick with stress. Like Lynn said, get the test - then if it's positive, start preparing.

Your biggest hurdle will be making sure you are healthy enough (particularly if you are still nursing). So just make sure your diet is healthy and well-balanced. If you start freaking out about it, you might start junk-food consoling, and that won't help you feel any better (whether you are pregnant or not!) <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Let us know what's happening. <img src="/images/graemlins/heart.gif" alt="" />

I resigned myself to being pregnant a couple of times and then found I wasn't.

Don't worry about what you can't handle. Calmly work out a way in your head that would work for you in the particular situation that you are stewing about.

My youngest child is 9 and I still have days where I am not sure that I am up for the challenge.

sweetie you will get throught it it may not be easy but you will. trust me i know! my 2 youngest to are 15 months apart. when my 2nd daughter hope was 6 months old i found out i was pregnant agian the day i went to the doc to get confermation we found out we were getting evicted from our house and on top of that our baby had to be in therapy and so many doctor cause she is autistic but we didnt know it at that time. darling you will survive just know that god sent you that blessing for a reason it will all come together in time. thanks candy