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#268497 09/14/06 05:57 AM
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I've met this really cool guy and I know he likes me.
We've been out
a few times, but nothing has happened. I'm pretty
sure that he's
waiting for a signal from me, but I'm really bad at
this kind of
thing. How do I let him know that it's okay to make a
move? Anyone
have any ideas? Help!!!!

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#268498 09/14/06 04:53 PM
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Well...Why dont you make the first move?
Why is it always up to the man? I bet he would be stoked if you made the first move.
I had to,and now we have been married for 6 years <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

#268499 09/15/06 02:38 AM
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[quote]I've met this really cool guy and I know he likes me.
We've been out
a few times, but nothing has happened. I'm pretty
sure that he's
waiting for a signal from me, but I'm really bad at
this kind of
thing. How do I let him know that it's okay to make a
move? Anyone
have any ideas? Help!!!!

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#268500 09/25/06 02:06 PM
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I think you should give him signals that you are interested in him! Let people know how you feel, use signals if you aren't the one to talk!!!!

#268501 09/25/06 02:13 PM
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I think sometimes men are just as afraid as we are about when, where, and who should make the first move. Try showing a little extra attention to him at diner or while watching t.v. anytime you want. We as women should not be afraid to go after what we want.


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#268502 09/28/06 01:46 AM
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Women are bolder than men in such things.

#268503 10/23/06 04:42 PM
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Make the move! It will be a great step for you, and if your intuition is right, the start of a new relationship. But, if you are wrong, look at the growth you made in conquering a fear - that is huge!!! You can do it <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

#268504 10/25/06 01:47 AM
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why dont your try subtle movs at first by just putting your hand on his?... will it be okay if you can go further??
you can also send him a msg on the phone to talk about it more directly..:)


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