I've met this really cool guy and I know he likes me. We've been out a few times, but nothing has happened. I'm pretty sure that he's waiting for a signal from me, but I'm really bad at this kind of thing. How do I let him know that it's okay to make a move? Anyone have any ideas? Help!!!!
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Well...Why dont you make the first move? Why is it always up to the man? I bet he would be stoked if you made the first move. I had to,and now we have been married for 6 years <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
[quote]I've met this really cool guy and I know he likes me. We've been out a few times, but nothing has happened. I'm pretty sure that he's waiting for a signal from me, but I'm really bad at this kind of thing. How do I let him know that it's okay to make a move? Anyone have any ideas? Help!!!!
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I think sometimes men are just as afraid as we are about when, where, and who should make the first move. Try showing a little extra attention to him at diner or while watching t.v. anytime you want. We as women should not be afraid to go after what we want.
"You will do foolish things but do them with enthusiam!"-Colette
Make the move! It will be a great step for you, and if your intuition is right, the start of a new relationship. But, if you are wrong, look at the growth you made in conquering a fear - that is huge!!! You can do it <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
why dont your try subtle movs at first by just putting your hand on his?... will it be okay if you can go further?? you can also send him a msg on the phone to talk about it more directly..:)
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