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LOL....good one Fam....LOL!

ok I was on a short trip with him and his mom and step mom (at the time i believe that one to they never married the same husband they were lover) they were in the front and my ex was in the back with another women i was in the middle. we stop for gas and i asked my ex who she was he said that it was the woman that he had been TRYING to drivor the last 8 YEARS (btw ex lived with his moms and a sister) he gave a short reason that she would not show up in court or sigh paper. well i did not want to p!$$ his moms off so i smiled and said ok and droped i was 100 miles from home with no cell phone or way home so what could i do? we stoped on the way back to eat me and the wife were out side smokeing (no one knew that ex had told me anything and every one was HIGHLY UNCOMY) we made small talk and she flat told meim ex's wife we have been married 9yrs and sperated off and on the last 5yrs. dont worry if you want him you can have him i dont want him but i wont divorce him either personaly i think you deserve better!!! (Are you roll ing in the floor yet? no good it gets worse)that should have told me some thing...but poor old 23yrold lonsome me was in LOVE i stay with him for another 5 months and in that time i discovered that he had a son that was2 and he had never seen and did not know where he was the mom left and he never seen her again. i only learned that because texas was taking the lieing sack of it to court for back child support. he had a heartattackthe day be fore he had to go to court. he went to court the next day because they told him if he did not show he would go the jail... i go too. the exs baby mom is living and ingaged to another guy and pregent with her 2nd. about 2 months later his tells me baby moma is gonna have his other son (she is fixing to pop in2weeks at that time)
I get mad and ask do you want a gf or a whore his said I NOT KNOW well did i slap him no did i dump him no.. I told him that he had 3 days to deside and when i saw him again he said and friend with benifits and i told him ok he could get one in the yellow pages if he looked onder ecsort but he better get rich cause with a D!(k that small they would charge him extra not to laugh. 2 1/2 hard by the way is no where near average and has no hope of getting near 10inchs! and that my friend was my first real boyfriend and even thou i had to have sex with him to keep him as a boyfriend so i could have some one to love is how i stayed a virgin witha man with a 10inch )!(k. i hope you got a great laft and learned from my colamity so you will not have to live my expericents thank you....lol even i laugh at my brain fart that lasted 9 almost 10 monthes and that was the last straw he was cheching on the and with a woman his said his adh not seen in two years!!!!!! come on she wasnt going topop out a elephent AHHHHHHH

um...errr....ok.....LOL! Don't know if I could have handled that one...lol!

what can i say i was raise you date one person at a time and with the intent to marrie that person to break up with him at that time was to me divocre which i believed was wrong...I droped that believe after that relation ship had sailed!!!! I will never raise kids in a church that believes that strong in dateing is only if you want to marry them!!! and i was the only one in the youth group who ever believed dating more then one person at a time is wrong. no most of them had kids and had to had pretrenity test to find the daddy. i was stupid but im not no more <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/devil.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/angel.gif" alt="" />

This man lied.
That was wrong.
Nothing else matters.

Well said.

Hi ItzMissE -

It has been awhile since the original post. I wonder what is going on with your love life at this point. Have you found someone worthy of you?

There are some really great guys out there who are looking for someone wonderful to be with. I have some guy friends that are single and have been looking for 'the one' for awhile now. If you haven't met "Mr. Wonderful" yet don't give up! There is bound to be a perfect someone for you soon.

Give us an update!

Danette
www.zazavu.com

lol...Hello Danette...
My love life at this point is null and void...I have not been on a date since this last one. I've decided that I just need to give it a break for a little while and focus on me.
I am sure that when the timing is right for me it will happen, but I am not on "the search".
I've come to the conclusion that dating just pretty much sux and it's too much of a hassle...It's too bad we have to go through this dancing ritual in order to find that special someone, but right now I need a break.
Thanks for the reply.

Missy

One day mister rite will turn up, probably when you least expect it, i am still waiting.

.....she said, from her rocking chair, knitting.....<img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />