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ItzMissE, I realized that as long as i was looking for some one i would find some one... not the one i wanted too find but some one. I got feed up with going out on a date and haveing to put out to even have a chanse at a second date that i stopped dateing. I found my husband when i stoped looking. he just walked in to my life and started talking to me out of the blue and as we talked he asked me out or rather i asked him out. the first thing i said when he said yes was i dont put out so if that is all you want keep on wanting because you wont find it here. he told me "I repect that and I didn't think you would anyway so I was even going to go there. well until about 6 months later anyways!!!

P>S> he did not have a girl on the side either!!

so check this out....it's funny, but I actually received a message from this guy today(the one I went out with when I wrote this original post)...His excuse...He had to fly to China on Sunday and now he is in Hawaii...for busines...and I guess I am supposed to be understanding of that becuase HE TOLD ME how he has to travel a lot for work and how he works crazy hours. He then proceeds to tell me that his phone took a dump and he now has to get a new one. So I tell him...didn't you have 2 phones?(he has a work phone AND a personal phone) and his excuse...yes, but his personal phone is at home on his counter...Can I get a B*LL SH*T' here!....The morning after he had a 45 minute drive home...HELLO! He had his personal cell phone with him then!
Gimme a break! He TRIED to put it ON ME and that I AM NOT understanding....He must really think I am that stupid. Are there ANY honest men out there? Just be upfront from Christ Sake!...I'm a grown woman...I can handle it....dang!

lol...I would have told him ok thats ok baby I get it so ya wanna COME over....hes says yes..and when he gets there expecting sex say O gee I only had one PU$$Y for you too love on and she smelled your BS and when to fine a REAL tom cat!! (ok i would not have said it put i would have though it so strong that he thought i did!!) Mind over Matter honey You dont MIND 'cause he DON"T MATTER!!! And can I get an AMEN?!!

he's probably married

someday you'll find someone. <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> good luck

lmao Bubbles!....I wish I did have the b*lls to say something like that!

me too...i date a guy once and after 3 or 4 months of dateing him, i found out the lieing sac of it was married!!! want to know how i found out? come on ask me i promise everyone will LTAO 10X harder then they ever dreamed of?

OK...I'll play -


How did you find out - ??

I'm already laughing...bring it on girlfriend...LOL!

I'm free if you don't mind the tickle of seven beards.