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The mother and daughter are in denial and need therapy.

The pervert needs the electric chair.

Absoluetly.

It is never the victims' fault.

If someone is sick in the head and perverted, how can it be the victims fault? The victim did not ask for this abuse.

There is nobody to blame except the freak who commits such an offence.

I also wanted to point out the situation regarding Mary Kay Loutourno. Lifetime made a movie about her story & painted a picture that she was just a woman with emotional issues. Yet if this was a man, he would of been painted as a very evil person.
Mary Kay Loutourno was also interviewed by Larry King where he was asking her questions & holding her hand like she was some kind of victim. If it were a guy, Larry King & the callers would of had a completely different tone, I'm sure.

I'm an avid watcher of Larry King, glad I missed that one though.

Let me ask you this and anyone else that cares to answer.
Are you familiar with the Menendez Brothers, Kyle and Erik?
They killed their parents in 1989, it was supposedly due to greed and money.

However, Kyle and Erik say it was due to child molestation over the years. I was just wondering if you believed their story or not.

I watched I believe Kyle and Tammy (wife) on Larry King.
I wonder if the murders would have transpired in this day and time would there have been a different outcome?

Because, they are locked up for life without the possibility of parole.

I was just curious, that's all.

Vicki L. Forte'
Bellaonline
Crime Editor

I agree that it should not be different for women than for men...but...

Some of these teenage boys are not so innocent these days (of course neither are some of these teenage girls for that matter). They are catching 13 and 14 yr old rapists and I know in our "innocent" little neck of the woods, there was a scandal about a party of 7th graders where a couple of kids were caught having oral sex. The parents were actually there at the house chaperoning - but the kids had snuck out back into the yard!!! It's like some of these kids don't care anymore.

I was watching some reality show on Bravo, based loosely on "Desperate Housewives" called "The Real Housewives of Orange County" (or something like that) - and one of the teenage guys was making the comment about how "you are the man if you can get together with a Mom". So some of these underage kids are actually trying to get together with older adults. It's not like they are being lured into it unknowingly.

I also know when I was in the hospital for depression I met a woman in there who was suicidally bi-polar. She was arrested the day she was released because she had been having an affair with a 15 yr old (she was my age - 35). But this woman was an extremely depressed individual with very low self esteem. Maybe when going through her manic phase she was quite different; but I would more see the teen being the dominant personality in the realtionship and her "clinging" to him than the other way around. At least from what I saw of her in the short time I knew her.

Now for the younger children and for incest- it's obvious, and for any kid that says it's against their will. But I'm just not so sure about some of these older teens anymore.

Of course, I'm sure if it ever happens to my children; I'm going to feel very differently, and am going to try to take someone's head off. <img src="/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> How's that for being fair and even- minded, eh?

Hey Michelle,

I watched a few episodes of Real Housewives of Orange County, it wasn't my cup of tea.

As far as Underage Kids actually trying to get with older adults, as you had stated, the key words "Underage Kids" and We are the Adults, therefore We should know better.

Even, if the Underage Kid, gets stark raving naked, then We as the Adult, should say "Get your clothes On I'll be back to talk to you." Then we should walk away.

Then, after we talk to them we should call their parents or legal guardian. We are the Adults, we shouldn't be baited or lured, unless of course we want to.

If you're a rapist at 13 or 14, I hate to think what you'll be at 20 and 30.

I can believe 7th graders were caught having oral sex behind their parents back, so their parents need to sit down with a needed communicated conversation, along with serious repercussions, restrictions etc.

Yet, their actions does not warrant, nor justify future harm that should be brought upon them by an adult rapist, sexual predator or offender.

These young teens were having sexual relations with their peers and I'm not saying what they did in the backyard was right.

There's no justification for an adult to be having sexual relations with children and underage teenagers.

The argument from our citizens, society, prosecutors, those who have been molested, raped, preyed upon and even those here who participate at this board....

Sexual Predators, Offenders, Rapists are constantly saying they have a mental illness, chemical imbalance, suffering from depression, emotional issues, childhood abuses & traumas ~~ therefore...

And, everyone wants to know when is it going to end?
Who is going to accept responsibility - the children?

At the end of the day, they are just children.

Have A Blessed Day. <img src="/images/graemlins/rolling.gif" alt="" />

Vicki L. Forte'
Bellaonline
Crime Editor

Good point Vicki.

You're right, the adult should be the one to step up and take control of the situation by putting a stop to it.

But I still stand by what I said on the teenage rapist issue. There are plenty of teen boys out there that can overpower an adult woman. Just because they are underage doesn't mean they should be able to get away with this crime, nor should the adult victim be blamed for not being able to stop it.

Oh, by all means... a rapist is a rapist!
I can't argue that.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend. <img src="/images/graemlins/rolling.gif" alt="" />

Vicki L. Forte'
Bellaonline
Crime Editor

Dear Michelle,

Just wanted to come back and say, that I'm glad you were able to come and join us.

Your contribution was very enlightening & you were a breath of fresh air.

I enjoy this type of dialogue and the position and stance in which you take.

Many people believe an older maturer woman, could actually ward off a young boy/teen from raping/assaulting her. Yet, it doesn't always work that way.

Kudos to you!

Vicki L. Forte'
Bellaonline
Crime Editor

Mary Kay Lortourno was on Larry King again last night. This time he went to her home in Seattle & interviewed both her & her husband Vili (the once 13 yr old boy she originally had sex with at that time). She is now 44 & he is 22. The tone of the interview was pleasant & it makes you wonder. If the roles were reversed even under the same exact situation & circumstances, the much older man would either of still be in jail or the Larry King interview would of had a much much less forgiven tone.
Vili stated that when he was younger he said that people wouldn't listen to him & only want to hear what they wanted to hear. No matter how much he told people that he wasn't or didn't feel like a victim, they didn't want to believe him.