BellaOnline Forums Relationships Dating Interracial dating in general.

I agree, it is most difficult if it is not accepted by family, but at the same time, you love who you love, no matter what. Of course everyone wants approval from friends and family, but if they can't be happy you found someone who treats you wonderfully, then maybe their approval isn't so important.

thats true, alot of people have disaproving family members and they seem to struggle with their choices especially if they are still living with their parents but sometimes you just have realize that while you love your family you have to make your own choices because it is after all your life and no one can live it but you.

Interracial dating is beastality, akin to a human mating with a chimpanzee. God created the races to be separate and it is in the Bible that they should not mix. I think anyone who participates in it will go to the lowest form in the afterlife.

It is not based on love. The racially inferior being wants to worm their way into the "upper" white class while the white person usually is someone who has been rejected by other prospective partners in their race and has to turn to a lower human form. For people who aren't race concius a lot of them would rather be with an inferior person than be alone unfortantaly.

The most common interracial couple I see here are white men with asian women. You have to really wonder about a relationship that's based on two people who have been rejected from each of their races and come to each other in desperation. asian guys are not that picky, so for them to shun an asian girl she must be REALLY unattractive. A lot of the cases are just brides from China who want a canadian passport and use the guy for that, while the guy just wants the girl because he can't have the more socially desirable white girl.

The only thing to do is let other people know how we feel and hopefully they will agree with us. I know I stare daggers every time I see an interracial couple and I refuse to serve them at my work as a travel agent (my boss understands and agrees with me in a lot of ways, but she will still serve them.)

Ask the white ancestors of the man who is participating in it and they would roll in his grave. He is diluting the pure white blood line by mating with inferior mongrels, which is another reason why whites will likely be extinct by 2050.

Most White people who date interracially would rather be with Whites but they've been rejected by Whites and have to lower themselves to dating scum. The best solution is to ignore these people. By not socializing with them, they'll be at a psychological loss. It's proven that if one is being ignored, frustration, depression, and desperation builds up. Whites who date inferior races really do want to be with Whites and if they're ignored by Whites, they won't be reinforced to date dirty races. I'm sure that the bottom of the white guy dating pool is happy to take whatever he can get.

As I stated before usually asian women will date white males because they're too ugly for Asian men (and most Asian men are not that attractive so for them to reject an Asian female she must be REALLY unattractive) and she wants a trophy, even if he is an inferior white male as long as he's white that's what counts. The white guy is usually someone who is weak in his own dating game so white girls reject him, therefore he sees Asian women as a second choice. White women are OVERWHELMINGLY the more attractive figure compared to the non-whit woman. A white man would never stoop to dating an Asian unless he was rejected by other white women and had no other choice.

People in interracial relationships DO NOT love each other. For one thing, most chinks can't speak English, so what she really wants from the white guy is a Canadian visa. Chinks are also superfishal and like a guy with a lot of money even if he is rejected by other white women and has to settle for an asian, she won't mind as long as she has his money.

No white guy would willingly date an asian unless he had been rejected by white women of his race. White woman are more beautiful, more intelligent, more socially desirable, more in demand than any asian woman. Nor would he want to put up with the stigma of interracial dating. The only reason a white guy would stoop to dating an inferior race is because he couldn't get any one else and didn't want to die alone.

Most interracial relationships I've observed have been short-lived. They were borne of a desire to rebel and/or seek attention...and they nearly never last.

The unfortunate result is when they result in a child. It is obvious watching a White parent attending their non-white offspring, and you can see the loathing and hatred and regret in their eyes. White parents of white offspring are much different, you can see they truly love their child.

Any parents who have interracial kids are just selfish. Not only are they diluting the white blood line but they are subjecting their kids to a horrible life of being teased and mocked, and endless questions of "What are you"? The child won't know how to identify himself and won't have any identity. That is really sad.

According to my sociology textbook, interracial couples break up more than intraracial couples, and interracial children have it worse off in terms of crime rates, academic success, career success, and friends. Who would want to be friends with a mud? His minority class mates won't want to be friends with him because he's not really one of them. His white class mates won't because he's tainted. Poor kids.

Race-mixing to produce a mud child is definitely child abuse. What kind of selfish parents would put there kids through that? They are alienating the kid from his grandparents and extended family (no one would want to touch a mud) and giving him a lifetime of an insecurity complex. Kids will ask "what are you?"

Personally I think race-mixing should be outlawed but that's just me.

A multi-or biracail family wouldn't or couldn't be a "normal" family just because there are two different races in there. No matter how "normal" they look, they can never truly be normal because there relationship is not based on love. Look at the asian/ white couples...Most of them are a gold-digger asian looking for a Canadian VISA and a white man who can't find a white woman so settles for an asian woman as his second choice. How is that love?

This is one of the most misquoted areas in the Bible - and to add on the words that you have said is horrible!

The part about not being "unequally yoked" is in no way referring to racially mixing in dating or marriage (although the KKK, nazis, and other low-life prejudiced people out there would like to have you think so!).

Uneqaully yoked is referring to a jewish woman marrying into a gentile or Christian home or vice/versa. It is very hard to raise a child with an acceptalbe and understndable set of values if the religions are that divided. - This Is what God warned against.

Interratial dating and procreation could be our worlds salvation. THERE ARE GENES THAT don't cross until someone falls in love with someone of another race and a brand new baby is born - and then WOW, WE have a cure for sickle cell anemia. Or how about Tay Sacs? WE CAN'T FIGHT THESE DISEASES ALONE. WE NEED TO START PULLING IN THE CELLS FROM ALL OVER AND SEE WHAT MAKES THE DISEASES WEAKEN AND WHAT MAKES THEM STRONGER.

It is possible that there is a plan for interracial dating that goes way beyond just two people falling in love. (Although that is a fine thing in and of itself!) Have you never noticed how physically beautiful the children are of such unions? I don't think that is a coincidence.

Dang right. I knew this girl in high school. She's half black, half asian. She was drop dead gorgeous. Her parents named her "Ebony", cause out of all her other siblings, she is the only one who looked black.

And look at Ashanti! 3/4 black, 1/4 chinese. Beautiful and extremly talented.

A-yep. Obviously someone who also hasn't finished reading the rest of the religious text or didn't understand the parts about love, compassion, or being non-judgemental...

I live in a very multi-ethnic area (white may be the minority - I'm not sure of the latest stats) with all "classes" (low, mid, filthy rich). My children were always encouraged to be 'color-blind' and see people for who they are inside. My daughter's friends are all of different races as are the boys she chooses to date. And sorry, she's no where near the desperate end of the dating scale. She's above average intelligence and is considered quite 'hot' (not my words - her friends'). I wouldn't care if she married a different race or same gender as long as the other person in her life provided her the type of companionship/relationship she wants.

I'm a white guy and I've no problem being involved in an interracial relationship.so many people are judgemental though It's pretty sad.

Well, when I get wealthy, I'm going to start my own interracial neighborhoods!

true love doesn't descriminate.. i have no against on interracial dating as long as your happy with one another. go for it, hear nobody.. for they don't know what you feel.

as long as u you are happy with whoever your goin out with...color shouldnt matter. things are different now....
i kno that some places still dont accept interracial relationships...but i feel that as long the person inside the skin makes you happy, you should be happy.
SKIN IS JUST A COLOR.