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Hello
I was wondering what would you do if you thought your spouse was cheating on you???

Confront him immediately - what looks guilty could actually be innocent ... I wouldn't want to spend time worrying when there is nothing to worry about, but then again I wouldn't want to be the fool for a single second longer.

But no matter what was actually happening (cheating or not), I think it would be time for a serious talk at the minimum and possibly even counseling .... there are some things that need to be be said aloud if there are things that make you suspect your spouse (and the fact that you suspect it too).

If you suspect your spouse of cheating you can confront them, but you had better have some hard evidence for two reasons, if they are, they are going to deny it anyway, if they aren't, they are going to be hurt by the questioning.

I collected evidence before confronting my spouse and she still tried to lie about it. Cheaters are cheaters and they will lie until they are blue in the face because they don't want to face the reality of the situation.

I will pray for you.

Yes it is true that cheaters are expert liars. please get some evidence and then confront. better to know the truth rather than worrying about it all the time.