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My boy friend and some of his friends decided a few days ago that they were going to go a ski trip together with just the boys, well before he left on thursday he told me that that there were two girls(they tend to sleep around)going and he forgot to tell me because he didn't think that it was important. the main reason that i am worried is because one of them has broken up a few marriages and the others husband left her for cheating on him. he is a great guy and i am very happy i just don't want him to be a repeat of my ex-husband.

Since there are other girls going, it's now not an all-guy thing. Invite yourself along. That will tell you volumes.

Sure, you can be worried all you want. This days it's almost natural to be. The thing is, is that no matter what you do or how much you worry if he is going to cheat on you, he's going to cheat on you. You might be able to postpone it sometimes, but eventually he'll find a way. I know it is hard, but you will be miserable living a life with someone that you can't trust. If you trust him then don't worry about it, but Yes, inviting yourself wouldn't hurt either.

If there is no trust then I am sorry to say it will not work out in the long run.Why would you want to be with someone you did not 100 percent trust?