Thanks Dave, for your responses (and Freespirit <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> ) - I don't see why sex isn't an expression of love. Love varies in its forms and as part of a union it can make up the whole truth that is the 'whole love'. And besides that, it's fun - surely part of being on earth is enjoyment as well? Having said that, I see your argument, that in your belief system, certain types of behaviour need to be controlled or validated by God. It isn't the way I think personally, but I respect you for it anyway <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
best wishes - Jane <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />