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I know we've had indigo, crystal and rainbow children, but what about the ones who haven't been conceived yet but nag their prospective parents to death about wanting to be born?! My husband says our (as yet) non-existent daughter has been noticeably with him for about 17 years. She first appeared when he was heading towards the end of his first marriage, and he couldn't understand it as he knew he wouldn't be having any more children with his then wife. When he met me, he said, her presence made sense.

Since meeting him, I have heard and seen her and she has come through strongly in several readings.

Does anyone else have any experience of contact with their children prior to being conceived, or can anyone recommend any sources on this subject? I'm fascinated by it.

Ha, ha, I think she'd take issue with being called non-existent <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

I'm not aware of much in this area, although I have heard that souls do choose their new parents. I'm also aware of babies that have not made it to birth staying around their mum in spirit.

Anyone else have experience in this area?

Finally someone that might understand and not look at me and my boyfriend like we are crazy. My son who is now four was a twin and I miscarried his sister when I was 7.5 months pregnant. She has always been around and my son talks to her all the time but she has now been making herself know to my boyfrined and apparently asked him if he would be her daddy. He said he would like that and the next thing we knew I was pregnant. Unfortunately I miscarried again. As much as I want to meet this darling child I am terrified to get pregnant now in case I miscarry again. In her conversations with my son she blames me for not wanting her enough which is not the case. My son is either an Indigo or a Crystal child(I am not sure which he is as yet). Please let me know if you have discovered anything. This little girl tells my son that she is scared to come because we are not ready for her. If you have any information please let me know. I would really appreciate it.

Hi Kota and welcome to the site.

First of all I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriages, I can only imagine how traumatic that must have been for you. Interestingly enough, I feel that my spirit child was one I miscarried in a past life and her birth in this life will complete a karmic circle. I can understand your fear of another pregnancy and maybe that's what your spirit daughter is picking up as "not wanting" her - you have nothing to feel guilty about. I'm going to do some investigating into the subject and will certainly get back to you with any information I find.

Do keep in touch with any more experiences, or even if you just need to talk to someone who understands what you're talking about!

Love and light,

Sara

Hi Kota
I think Sara is right, she's probably sensing your fear of pregnancy & misinterpreting this as being unwanted. Have you had any medical checks about the miscarriages? I only ask because one of my students had repeated miscarriages until they found it was something in her blood causing the problem. She had to give herself injections throughout the next pregnancy, but has just had a beautiful baby girl <img src="/images/graemlins/heart.gif" alt="" />

My sister and I have been told, separately, that her miscarried child is still around both of us. Both psychics have described her (she actually resembles her sister except for her cheek bone structure being thinner). She is around me apparently because I was so upset about it at the time and she likes to help me. My sister has been told when things are moved in her daughters bedroom, it is the other little girl playing with her toys! Its just a shame we cannot sense her around us. Apparently she chose not to be born as she liked it better there!

Hi Viv
It is incredibly comforting to know that these souls can stay around us if they choose to. Perhaps you could meditate on her & ask her for a physical sign to tell you she's around. It might be a feather-like brush on your cheek, a tickle, or another sign. My gran gives me a lovely warm hug all over my back when I call on her.