Nice to meet you too... I hope there are more people like us around. My friends are basically all like me, none of them want kids, some are less adamant than others, though. You know sometimes you're like, "Yeah, this guy will cave... some chick will get him whipped and he'll cave." But a few of my friends are just like me, they won't change their minds because they're very strong willed and know what they want.
On the other hand, I do not want to change a girl's mind, either. I don't want to make her feel bad or disappointed... if she wants kids, that's fine, but she's going to need to find another guy, then, because I'm not the one. I just hope there are actually some girls out there who I share other similar interests with and who don't want kids. Sometimes... I feel like there aren't hardly any.
Fortunately, I am attracted to another trait that most girls / women have who do not want kids. I like girls who are really career oriented, who want a life of their own and don't want a guy telling them what to do. I'm ok with that strong, independent woman idea. I don't want a girl who will serve me, haha, I want a girl who is my equal, who I can respect. I can't respect girls who just want to stay home and cook, clean, and raise kids. That doesn't do anything for me. If that's what they want out of life, so be it, but I want an equal. The hottest thing is a girl like Sidney Bristow on Alias (Jennifer Garner) or Lara Croft in Tomb Raider, a girl who totally kicks [censored] and can hold her own. I love that. I would think those kind of girls would be a lot less likely to want kids if they have a great career, but then again, Garner has let us down <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> She is not Sidney, apparently.
