I've always wanted an African Gray and my thoughts leaned towards a Congo. Now I have a chance to buy an unsexed Timneh, 3-5 yrs. old, 300 word vocabulary, friendly but seldom out of the cage, held or played with. The current owner has only had him for about 3-4 months and needs the cash. I'm told he's not agressive and they pet him through the cage bars! Would this be a risky purchase? Would the poor guy come around in time? I want to be able to hold and cuddle. Or should I keep looking? BTW---Asking price for parrot and large cage is $550. I'd have about a 3 hr. drive to see him but am willing if there's a chance he'll be the pet I'm hoping for.