Kat1980,
No, you are not offending me. Don't worry.
CF people are normal people like everyone else. Why would we draw the attention of parents who regret their decision? Is it to prove that it is not self-evident to have kids? Is it to prove that it is smart to fully consciously decide whether or not you want them?
I like this board - everyone is very nice. But being cf is not a better option and having kids ain't a better option either.
Like I said before, some of us want kids and some don't. Some of us want pets and some don't. Be proud of being cf like parents are proud of their kids rather than trying to distinguish yourself from parents. We are PEOPLE. If cf people keep on distinguishing themselves from parents by drawing the attention to parents who regret their decision and so one, we'll never come to the point where parents respect us cf people back. Be proud of who you are. I am incredibly proud of who I am. I am proud of my childfreedom, I am proud of the company I run, I am proud of the fact that I beat cancer, I am proud of my pets. I am who I am. I am cf. So what? Does that make me (less) better than parents? I will never try to distinguish myself from people with kids. We're human beings. There are parents around who regret their decision. There are people around who wish they had chosen another job. There are people around who regret moving to another country. And so on, and so on. But in the end, they're all people. What is the difference?
We all make choices. We make choices we're proud of, and we make choices we subsequently regret. Such is life. We never talk about such choices. But when it comes to kids...