I am a Chinese lady from China and dating with a divorced Polish man, who is working in China now. But there are some concerns about his marital status. He said he was divorced more than a year ago. But I can still see the pictures of his daughter, his wife and his wedding in his wallet. I am really concerned about his maritial status because of this.
I don't want to be hurt by a false man.
Another concern is that, he told me that he had a chaotic life in the past. He was illoyal to his wife for many times and kept several women at the same time while he was married.
All the above-mentioned concens worried me a lot in dating this Polish man.
But I can feel that I really love him. So, I really want to find out
1. whether he is lying about his marital status or not.
2. whether he is really single now and divorced his wife more than a year
Could you please point me to the rigth direction about how to check out his marital status?
And....is it rare for Polish people to date several women at the same time?
His daughter is also a concern for me. He had never told me actively that he has a daughter until I found it out myself. I feel quite difficult to accept his daughter from my Chinese culture. How about in Polish culture, is it more acceptable? Also, I am confused that why he was not honest about this?
Confused and lost,
Karen
