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[color:"purple"] [/color] Hi There , I'm Montebride or one unhappy bride ! I was in the process for the second time of planning our Wedding when once again it has been placed on hold. Granted it is understandable reasons. The first time last year was cuz I did it due to my mothers stoke and near death. I wanted her to be around for the Grand Event. Altough it is my second wedding. My first was a very miserable wedding done at a courthouse, on my ex-husbands lunchbreak, with our honeymoon at Taco John's before he went back to work ooh yeah. Which was a marriage that only lasted a year anyways . Wow should have saw that one coming huh lol .
Nahh the Wedding I am planning on having with my current
and most wonderful fiance. Is sure to be a huge hit if we ever get around to it this time it was because of health insurance at where he work's. The companys changes it all around on us upped the rates, and the deductables , so now there is no way it will be affordable for us to get the family plan where he works . And the place I work doesn't offer insurance so I am not sure what were going to do yet. The problem is I am Epileptic meaning without my daily medication I can have seizures . The medicine a month without insurance cost's over $300.00 . Yet his insurance with both of us is like $250.00 per month for the rate of his family insurance plus his deductable is $6,000.00 a year then his company only pays 80/20 once thats paid ! It's such a ripoff. We even looked privately but private insurace won't cover me due to a prexisting condition yet his company will cuz it is a group plan. So I guess it looks like we call the wedding off a while longer. Just makes me so angry that my fiance makes $1700,00.00 every 2 weeks some times only about $1,500.00 due to how many miles he can get hauled in 2 weeks time. And still making that money we can't afford to get decent insurance. Because it doesn't matter if your making $ or if your flat [censored] Broke anymore. Your always gonna be getting the raw end of the deal either you make to much to get help, or you just broke, and can't afford to go to work. How Messed up Is That ?

Hi, I understand completely. My daughter and son inlaw are in the same situation. My daughter only makes 9.00 an hour and my SIL has severe epilepsy. My daughter is PG with their first and that qualifies her for state medical but because my SIL is not PG or a child they dumped him off just after he had surgery on his shoulder as a result of 3 grand maul seizures back to back in one night. He was not able to have the phys. therapy after the surgery because he was no longer covered. Now he has to have a kidney removed in a month and may have to have surgery again on his shoulder. His seizure meds are almost 400.00 a month and they are having to pay cash for them. He has not been able to work since last fall. They currently live with me and my husband. They did get an application to Keppra (his seizure med.) and with the doc's signature they should be able to get it for about 15.00 a month. If you would like more info. I found a couple of other websites for presc. for free or a lesser cost if you qualify. Let me know. Good luck and hope things turn around so you can have the wedding you are hoping for.