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Well, I started off writing an article on breasts as a symbol in dreams and ended up climbing on my soapbox....I don't get to do that very often on the Dreams site <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I thought y'all may enjoy it:

Dream Symbols - Breasts

It is funny that you should post an article about this Parthena because for the past 3 or 4 weeks I have been working on a collection of articles about plasic surgery here for the site. That is why I haven't posted anything recently because I am doing research on the most common types. Not that I am promoing plastic srgery but just to get some general information out there for anyone considering it.

I love the image of the Wildendorf Goddess. I have a shirt that says "I AM a Goddess...the Wildendorf" and it has a picture of Her on it. It amazes me how American society compared to many other societies are sooooo obsessed with breasts. Sure they are nice to look at, all women have them, but be thankful for what God(s) gave you.

I should have the artcles done sometime this weekend (crossing fingers).

Hi Jeannette,

Willie is my favorite goddess to sculpt - the fatter and fluffier and saggier the better! Very few of my girls are skinny. I strive to make them look like real women. I make large ones too and they freak people out when I take them to shows. That is so sad.

I'll keep an eye out for those articles and will add links to my article <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Haha, my mom, friends and co-workers have told me for years that I am obsessed with breasts...mine in particular. Tis fortunate that I am so comfortable in my own skin seeing as it is my job to assist plus size women in being comfortable in theirs.

It took me about 40 years to be comfortable in my body. While I've never had a weight problem, I am straight up and down with the exception of a fat stomach that has bothered me my entire life. My own mother gave me a complex about it by constantly nagging me to suck it in. Over the years, people have actually asked if I was pregnant.

When I did exercise 6 days a week for 20 years, I never had the body I wanted. I learned in college that there is only 20 percent you can work with. 80 percent is genetic and you need to learn to live with it.

I found out about ten years ago it is caused by a severe spinal defect, which is why no amount of exercise ever helped - in fact, it made it bigger.

If I ever did consider plastic surgery, I would have a tummy tuck.

I lost half a cup size with each child but it's never bothered me. I have heard some women claim that larger breasts make their waists and stomachs look smaller and that may be true. The thought of having plastic gel bags inserted in my boobs is just not appealing to me so I doubt I'd ever have it done. I'd be more comfortable with having fat removed than having something put in.

I'm not sure what I think about altering our bodies with plastic surgery becoming the norm <img src="/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

I saw that show on MTV I think. She wanted to be in Playboy didn't she? They told her not to do it and she did anyway. We thought it was funny because they told her that she was too big for Playboy. I think plastic surgery is taken too lightly. We had a family friend that died from a stomach stapling. Shows like the one on MTV makes it more popular for younger kids. I think that is very sad.

That was the one who ended up with ugly, fake looking breasts. She had them re-done and still didn't make it.

I'm an A-cup girl from a family of C and D-cup women. My mom had the pleasure of two teenage daughters trying to shop for clothes, one complaining nothing fit her as she was so flat-chested and the other complaining her boobs were too big for everything. Either way, my sister and I both wore a lot of baggy sweaters.

Over time, I've learned that there is such a thing as "perfect mouthfuls" and I've got 'em. As I get older, more and more women tell me they are envious of my smaller breasts.

Rae,
I have always had the opposite problem of you, I have always had "big-uns" as Al Bundy would say LOL When I hit puberty, one day I was flat, 2 or 3 days later I was a C cup during my 8th and 9th grade in high school. NOw after having 2 kids, I teeter between a D and DD. I have started losing a good amount of weight and I stopped breast feeding so mine are slowing skrinking. Sometimes I am envious of women with smaller breasts but there are days that I wear a certain bra with a certain top, and even the women turn to look again LOL

When I was pregnant and when I used to have periods, the swelling made me uncomfortable and made me feel fat - so I had no problem with losing a bit with each of my sons. I'm a 36A because I have a big, "swimmer's" back and you wouldn't believe how many manufacturers don't even make that size! <img src="/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

They were all breast-fed, so they went for a good cause - and none of my boys seem to be 'boob' men. My oldest seems to like girls who are larger in general and I'm really pleased to see that!