BellaOnline Forums Relationships Marriage Very lonely and hurt

Hi I'm new to this forum and I didn't see one on relationships so I decided to ask advice from the married side. I have 2 children from a previous marriage and I am 29 yrs old. I have been dating my b-friend for 3 yrs. The problem is that he is 22 will be 23 this year anyway I am currently 7 months pregnant and these last couple of weeks he has turned into a complete jerk!!! He has been mean to me, has even moved out of my house and he said some very mean things to him and I reacted by slapping him and he has told me not to call him anymore which is fine, I told him he needed to grow up and learn how to be a man instead of acting like a child. It hurts me because now that I'm in the last couple of weeks of my pregnancy I am so lonely and sad and emotional and now is the time when I need him the most. It hurts me to think that after all these years and now his 1st child being on the way he can act like this? Why????? The other deal is my family, my uncle butted into one of our arguements by telling him that if anything happened to me while I was pregnant that he was going to beat him up so now my b-friend doesn't want to come back to my house until my uncle leaves, go figure. I'm his so called 1st true love and after 3 yrs now that I'm ready to have his child he decides to act this way, I'm confused, I need advice and since I've never dealt with anyone so young what are the chances that he'll come around??? <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

My ex freaked out too near the middle to end of my pregnancy with our son. Mine turned really abusive. He went as far as pushing me down when I was about 6 months pregnant, in public and no stopped to help me or make him stop. How sad. Anyways, i don't think the situation will get any better. Maybe after the baby is born something will click in him for him to grow up. That happened to my brother when his first son was born. He did a complete 180, He got a great job, a dependable job, and he hasn't stopped since. I guess it just depends on the guy. My brother was 21 or 22 when my first nephew was born and my ex was 25.

I be as independent as possible and rely on friends and family for support from this point on.... If the guy is going to be a jerk, I wouldn't wait for him to grow up. Guys tend to be so immature especially at that age. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. It must be tough....