Just wanted to take a moment for us to focus on US...
Where are you at this point in your life? Not as a mother or father, but as an individual. Are you where you want to be? Working the job you want to work? Living your life to the fullest? If so...tell us about it. If not, what would you need to do to get yourself on the right path? Even single parents need to think about their own needs now and then.
