I have had several bigger dogs over the course of my lifetime, and I have found the dog that currently lives with us to be the best size dog for us. He's a 10 lb pomeranian, and even my husband likes him! We had always considered small/toy dogs to be 'yappers' and I myself often said under my breath as I passed someone walking one of these ankle biters 'might as well get a cat'. well, Jack came to us a year ago and I cannot say enough nice things about him. He's the sweetest, most loving dog, and so gentle with the kids. His best friend is our cat, and I dont have to worry either will get hurt!