First of all, I do not understand what you mean with "had a seat" with a man.

However, if you're wondering why such a ravishing girl doesn't get asked out, I can tell you that many beautiful women have the same problem because men are intimidated by their beauty. Not from my own experience (I have the opposite problem: No man feels inferior to me so I always had dates!) but my gorgeous friends surely did.

It's unfortunate that the only men who feel confident enough to ask out a gorgeous woman tend to feel full of themselves so they can be jerks.

She should do the choosing and ask men out.


Lori Phillips
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