Men can be big babies, for certain. Especially when they become spoiled. You've been the main breadwinner and he has less responsibilities. If his depression is causing him to escape into video addiction, he needs to seek help. Of course, most men will refuse that course of action.
There comes a time when a wife needs to deliver a clear and serious message before she walks out. Ultimatums can be seen as manipulative and cruel but there is nothing more cruel than walking out without warning so giving him an ultimatum can be a last ditch effort to save your marriage:
How to Issue an Ultimatum
