Im 20 years old and I am getting married in three weeks. From the a newborn till the age of 16 I was very violently abused from my father. When I was 16 he moved out with out telling the family. He was missing for two months before we found him. He is now with a new family and apperently has canged. I have many amazing memories of my dad. But it has been years since weve talked. The last time we did talk was our last fight. My sister is getting married next summer and im her maid of houner so my dad will be at her wedding i will have to talk to him them. Do I call and invite him or should i leave it since im slowing starting to get over the abandonment and trust issues he has put on me?
