I agree that children are a huge responsibility and even if I had the money to take care of them, I still wouldn't have them. If I found out that I was pregnant, it would be devastating although my bf would disagree. I just don't think he gets all of the things women go through while being pregnant and giving birth. He doesn't have to deal with any of it-doctor appts, weight gain, stretch marks etc. I don't think people should be looked down upon for not wanting children. Children are a "want" not a "need" in life.