I see what you mean with polar opposites of choosing not to have children versus not being able to have children, but I was thinking this is about married life with no kids (either chosen that way or resigned to it after not being able) not really a support for people who are probably distraught that they can not bear children. That definitely must be a difficult and emotional issue for those in that situation. I would never want to offend or hurt someone who is upset over really wanting kids but just couldn't! I wonder what the name of a forum to support someone
specifically unable to conceive children who is probably going through more of a grieving process would be so that there would be something very focused on that situation? I imagine people in that position would want a specific area because that is a very sensitive issue whereas those of us who
choose to be child free are actually discussing a lifestyle we had control to choose with all the issues that come with that (of which mostly would be more of a celebratory mind-set). Sure are two totally different situations in life. hmm
