mmm...i dated a guy like this and it dont not turn out good... he would get mad and change his mind and i am wrong and he was right type of thing where I had to change or he would leave and then he would be like nothing happened at all and everything was great like it had been before.... I later found out he had a girl friend about to have his kid we had dated for about a year so.... plus I resently found out he had another girl friend also pregent about the same time.....

I thought he was being open and honest at first then I thought oh he has been hurt and there is something going on and he needs me to be understanding....then I thought he had some sort of mental problem like bi polar or something because he would make me feel like trash and then he would get depressed and act like a whip pup because I would tell him to back off or cry so I wouned up feeling guilty for getting mad or crying and upsetting HIM!!!!

he was the master at turning things all about him and manipulating me so everything was my fault and to my shame....

anyways I hope your guy is not like this and I wish you the best but I am still going to pray that God gives you wisdom!!!

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