I would say "No, there is nothing you can do to help." except I don't know what kind of help you are talking about.

Do you mean help renew your relationship with this fellow?

Do you mean to just 'help' this fellow in general? Help him do soomething specific other than come back to you?

Do you mean do something to help yourself? Help yourself do what?

Something else entirely?

A couple of questions about you: Are you Catholic?

Were you actually engaged or did you just have "plans to marry and everything."?

How old are you?