Hi, Shannon,
i'm new to the board, too. I just experienced my 3rd miscarriage in the past week. i had a D&C 2 days ago. You are going to experience a lot of emotions, and the time you will feel like trying again will really depend on you. With my last miscarriage, i experienced anger, depression, and tried to distance myself from babies and the talk of. It seemed like longer, but we tried again a couple months later. That try just ended up in another miscarriage. I don't know why but this time i'm handling it much better. I have a lot of unanswered questions. We are waiting for test results to help us piece together the puzzle of why we are not having viable pregnancies.
I would definitely recommend having a D&C. Miscarrying at home is painful--it's bearable usually, but I found that the physical pain kept reminding me of my emotional pain.
I would recommend a lot of prayers, and talk a lot to family and friends. Some things they say will not help at all, but some things they say will benefit you.
Good luck, and God bless.
Debra Jo
