bi - poly noob and dating - 07/09/12 04:57 PM
I have exiting news but needed a safe place to talk because I can't share this on face book...
I haven't felt this giddy in years...
I am married but I am bi and my SO as been very supportive and understanding. And we came to an agreement to become poly and we have looking for a third for us to date together... after a several failed attempts I think we may have found the one.. but we are taking it slow....oh I am so exited...
All the other girls we tried were interested in my husband and tolerated me to get to him ... but this new girl..I don't feel threaten or jealous of...I find myself craving her approval.
We meet through mutual friends and with my husbands encouragement she and I made out a little at the party last weekend. I ran in to her at a picnic this weekend and she made a effort to talk to me it was light conversation about movies but I made a bold move to invite her to dinner with me and my hubby in two weeks. She agreed! I want to take it slow with her but inside I am screaming "Please be my girlfriend."
I have not actually dated someone in 10 years and throwing a husband in the mix makes it a little odd...any poly / bi people out there with some practical advice?
I haven't felt this giddy in years...
I am married but I am bi and my SO as been very supportive and understanding. And we came to an agreement to become poly and we have looking for a third for us to date together... after a several failed attempts I think we may have found the one.. but we are taking it slow....oh I am so exited...
All the other girls we tried were interested in my husband and tolerated me to get to him ... but this new girl..I don't feel threaten or jealous of...I find myself craving her approval.
We meet through mutual friends and with my husbands encouragement she and I made out a little at the party last weekend. I ran in to her at a picnic this weekend and she made a effort to talk to me it was light conversation about movies but I made a bold move to invite her to dinner with me and my hubby in two weeks. She agreed! I want to take it slow with her but inside I am screaming "Please be my girlfriend."
I have not actually dated someone in 10 years and throwing a husband in the mix makes it a little odd...any poly / bi people out there with some practical advice?