Hi, This is my first post, but I have a serious question in my mind and I need opinions as to how to answer this...I think we are both very wrong in our ways of fighting or arguing. I get frustrated in the fight and then tell her we should just split up, she then grabs my things and my sons things and proceeds to throw us out on the street at that moment. Well two nights ago she started doing this procedure again and had taken the ashes of my father and threw them out and then proceeded to grab my sons things and was heading to the door. I grabbed her by the arm this time and made her lay down on the bed and I restrained her and told her that we were not dogs that she could throw out whenever she wanted to. And she started to get more physical trying to get up, i put pressure on her wrist so she would submit to relaxing and asking her if this outburst was over. She finally said yes. I let her up and went to the living room, she followed and grabbed a glass on the coffee table and smashed it into my head. My question is was I wrong for restraining her?
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