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LBP #741070 01/16/12 11:03 AM
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I have this saying...

Cry, everything will look better in the morning, that's what cleansing tears were meant for.

Well, with what came through, being small community and lake regardless how it was used in a sentence and everything else that's going on ironically as I'm writing this.

Bullies , they will never stop attacking you, but the only way they win is if they change who you are.

What's interesting here is this -

Consider a rainbow. Bullies, especially could stand to or groups imposing their own personal beliefs on others.

A rainbow is simply the fractions of light, each color separately.

If we didn't have them or prisms displaying each of the many color composites, we'd see light for what it is. A beautiful whole.

So all of the discomfort, enforcing rules, greed, power, and control is for not.

We're all beautiful fractions of a whole; a part of the same.





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LBP #741075 01/16/12 11:35 AM
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hey lpb,
as for being attacked,i got atacked a lot in my neighbourhood because of the way i dress and i look,but the guy who goes out with a knife in the fear of being attacked is going to make it a reality for sure cause it attracts opponents.if you just let go of this through understanding this fear you have,you ll be able to reach a new level of understanding about yorself and what happenned to you and that guy that attacks you will go away as you will have validated that event,go inside see what re afraid of understand it and what you will let go of inside you wil reflect outside you.the process is basically the sameyou used tounderstand mistakesyou do and your suffering brought on by various situations.HAILS!

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There's a lot of truth to that.

When it comes to fear, it's seems we just attract or bring it about. It's an energy that seems to attract opposition.

To be safe and continue what moves you, the key may be to grow out of who you are and connect with people who just get it.

A fluent energy but not just something that agrees w/you. More reciprocative, if that makes sense?



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wow, so I did cry this morning but from reading an inspirational message about mothers day in heaven. It made me cry because I wish my mom were here to help me. So then I see your reply Elleise about the bullies and I cried some more. I feel like such a hypocrite. I have always told my nieces and nephews to stand up to bullies and stand up for what they believe in and here I am being a coward. I try to tell myself at least they knew who their bullies were, I have no idea and that makes it hard to stand up to them. I still feel like a hypocrite though. So then I come back here to post and I read the post by gemineye006 and I cry again. I am so sorry gemineye that you had that happen to you! That is horrible.It makes me so angry that people are that way! isn't the basic theme of the Bible LOVE? Why? and what makes people do these things? you are both right, I have a lot of fear from many different events in my life. I have seen first hand the evil out there and it scares me. I have got to learn to overcome it or they will win won't they? I feel as if I have more crying to do and as much as I don't like to, I do think it is healing. It is bringing to surface so many things that I have buried. it looks like I need to buy some tissues! Good night all. peace and God bless.

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yay, lpb,
i forgot to tellyou that after cleaning that up i could walk among those people without them touching me,you re kind ofnot on the radar anymore.
don t feelbad about me or yourseld,what i meant to say is that thisbrings you closer to yourself and stronger instead of living in fear of who you are.be nice and understanding with yourself, there are no mistakes there are just stages where you have like a quest to fulfill.
don t buy tissues use toilet papers,i use my clean underwear most of times cause i rarely wear any.

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thank you gemineye, your words helped me more than you shall ever know.(and you made me laugh with your underwear statement) thank you all who have helped me. You are all truly blessings in my life. I believe I was sent to this site by Someone who knew what I needed and you have all provided it. I can't say thanks enough. (((hugs)))

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LBP, you really are a gracious person smile

I don't think you're a hypocrite. I can't imagine living in condemntation has any pleasantries whasoever. It's not hypocritical to want to retreat for a time, even years sorting through what's real or not.

When relationships fail, we lose another person's reality. What they thought of us, why didn't it work, etc.? Throw in a difficult outside world and it can feel like Hell, literally.

You're still you and out of the milleniums of evolving particals out there, something bigger than all of us put together, thought enough to bring someone such as youself into this world.

If out of this experience, you found us...well we as a group are a better bunch for having you a part of it.

That right there can be a cornerstone of strength. All any of us need is a starting point. From there possibilities are endless no matter what influences we've got going on in our lives going on.


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I just noticed your reply Elleise and I didn't mean to ignore it. Thank you for the very kind words. I have to admit, reading what many of you write, I don't understand much of it. There are some very deep thinkers on here and I don't seem to comprehend it. I feel quite stupid reading others words and not knowing what they are talking about. I am a simple person , I don't think too deeply,maybe that is why I can't figure out my own life? I am always the sounding board for others and that is fine,I will help anyone I can and I just try to love people for who they are. Maybe that should be enough for me. I do appreciate the help from you all even if I don't understand some of it, I know you are all helping me. It is nice to have someone listen to me for a change. I thank you again.

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